The new super smash bros looks amazing
you ever look at a kink and think “nah” then a few years later look at the same kink and go “actually yes”
So I just had an in depth conversation with an acquaintance of mine that I’d been friendly with but never truly knew tonight and it gave me a lot of insight.
See, from my point of view as a woman who’s a bit overweight, my self worth has never really been high, I’ve been told my face was pretty, but I’ve never been body confident and this weakness has led me to some very poor life choices. So from my perspective I never really got why “pretty girls”, the ones who have every boy wrapped around their finger, could have any sort of self esteem issues.
But the fact that I learned is that its hard to find someone who truly likes you for you when people tend to only be interested in you because you’re sexually attractive and they just want to bang you. This makes sense logically, I guess I just never thought about it this way before though, since I was on the side of the fence where I could get people who liked my personality but only wanted to be friends because they didn’t find me sexy.
I am not surprised by the behavior of the majority of guys to gravitate towards someone who’s on the more attractive side. Who can blame them? Its not like women are any different, we like to look at our options and pick the best looking one.
But the point is, that there is so much more to a person than the size of their tits/junk, the alignment of their smile, or how fat or thin they are. People have so much to offer in the way of individuality though, unfortunately nine times out of ten, that seemingly small detail is overlooked because you at first think if the person’s attractive enough you can grow to like their personality and interests, until one day you realize you can’t/don’t/won’t and you must make some life altering decisions that really hurt people.
So the moral of this post is: Never go halfsies when you’re thinking of dating someone, people rush so much nowadays that relationships are like races. Which is the opposite of what it should be like, the longer you get to know someone that better you are at determining whether you’re compatible or not, and its okay if you’re not, you will find someone someday who is perfect for you. But just remember, if you don’t know with 100% certainty that the person you’re interested in has an attitude/personality you can live with now, prior to dating, I can assure you that their perspective won’t suddenly change with the addition of you in their life. They’re still going to like what they like, and you shouldn’t try to change them. Instead compromise and give their way a try first. If that doesn’t work for you, then they’re not the one for you and you should keep moving right a long to save yourself and the person you’re curiously interested in from a lot of confusion, heartbreak, and self esteem destruction.
People deserve better than that, I deserved better than the boys I dated before I met Chris, and you deserve the best too. So don’t EVER lower your standards or feel pressured to date someone just because they’ve approached you. If you’re not sure, that’s okay, life isn’t a race. You have more than enough time to find your special someone. And if they want to rush you, they’re not worth you’re time.
Uuh… it’s hard to explain, it’s a burden that just appears out of nowhere and fucks you up for days. Ignoring it is not easy. It takes over you and even tends to distort your perception of reality turning it into a living nightmare. It’s awful and terrifying.
Landscapes of England taken in colour infrared film.
Shattuckite, Dioptase, Chrysocolla; Tantara Mine, Katanga, Congo-Kinshasa
- Day 28 - Draw any bug from Animal Crossing
bees, satan’s little fart cloud
do you ever sit there and wonder what life must be like for people without anxiety
like they just
without worrying about them first
Anxiety is an excuse
I hope you walk barefoot on a world of legos for the rest of your life
The first time Tony Stark had an anxiety attack he thought he had been poisoned.
think about that
i love when dogs sigh. its like, hey bud, long day at the office?
Guys be like “don’t wear leggings if you don’t got no ass” and I see you bitches walking around in muscle shirts without any muscles so pipe the fuck down